The programmes are for you, if:
– you are not happy with your current situation
– you are feeling overwhelmed, confused or emotionally drained and exhausted
– you are having negative thoughts and they influence your mood and your daily behaviour
– you want to feel happier, but you are not sure how
– you want to do something, but you are not sure what to do or where to start
– you are not sure what your purpose is, what you are meant to be doing
– you think that there is something missing in your life and you are not sure what
– you feel emotionally tired and your energy is not there
– you feel heavy or sad for long periods of time and you do not know the reason why you feel like that
– if you work with people, lead or manage them
– if you would like to increase your awareness and become a conscious leader
– if you would like more impact, a greater influence on others
– if you would like to leave a powerful and lasting legacy
If you feel ashamed that you need to work on yourself…
Think about how ashamed you will feel if you don`t work on yourself…- in three years` time,
having the opportunity, having all the resources you need…
Are you ashamed of getting stronger, better, more powerful? Are you ashamed to progress, to grow? Oh, yes.. people will think I am not smart enough because I am learning… – hope that is NOT you…!!!
Are you not ashamed of disrespecting your individuality, by suppressing it so that you can fit in… so that you become invisible.. is there no shame in that?
Ashamed that you need something? Imagine that successful people did not need anything.. ever… Would they achieve anything…. ever???
Being rich, being wealthy means GETTING what you NEED. What do you need to be happy? What do you need to become rich? What do you need to become successful? What do you NEED to have the impact you want to have…? All you really need to do is…. ASK!!!!
Firstly, nobody knows whether they can do it or not… until they actually DO it…!
If you think you can`t you still might be able to do it… but you won`t as you have convinced yourself: you can`t.
If you think you can`t, you probably:
focus on the how: you might think that what you try to do is too big… too much to handle.. (you should focus on the closest and the most achievable step that you might take.. today) keep the big idea !
if you think you can`t and choose it as an option, as an excuse…, you probably:
haven`t got the vision that is strong enough to pull you towards it, it is not your priority
haven`t been thinking long and hard enough about what will happen if you don`t… if you don`t even try…
You can: if you can imagine it, and if it is within the laws of physics.
If you think you can`t as a leader, your people will follow… if you think you can, some people might think you are insane and unfollow you, but then they will be the most disappointed… with themselves.. for not believing in you.
If you think you can`t you are almost guaranteed disappointment with yourself for not even trying…,
you erase your confidence, you feed your “not good enough” energy… do you choose to feel that way…?
The action builds confidence, action is the only way to provide the results you want… if not, take action again until it does.
Action is the act of creating – if you are not creating – you are being created… – not necessarily according you your personal taste…
People who do things, take action don`t think that they can`t… they think they CAN, but they don`t know how to.. just yet.
The programmes are suitable and relevant for just about any adult because they are based on universal human cognition, general language formation principles and universal human emotional and mental needs.
The content of the coaching and programmes is tailored to your individual needs. As one can imagine, the needs might vary significantly from one individual to another. That is why you will be assessed in great detail to ensure that the programme content matches your personal situation, addresses your particular needs and is as effective as it is possible.
The coaching programme brings out a range of issues and you must be ready to face them. Once you see things in a different light, it is hard to go back to the old self.
The programmes comprise the latest developments in the world of linguistics and coaching. Once one commits and does the work, the change is imminent and inevitable. You must be ready for that change. You also need to be comfortable with being in charge, making decisions and all of the possible responsibilities that come with it.
Is it the best you can get? Yes, yes and one more time: yes. There is no other programme which covers so many human mental, emotional and spiritual aspects. The scope and the depth of the materials available make it truly the best. No doubt about that. In many ways, it is holistic in its approach to cognition, language, our inner energy (how it actually works) our needs and our inner resources.
It deals with our core and spiritual, emotional and mental foundations and does it thoroughly. It doesn’t just focus on vision and goals. We are so much more than that! When we meet our core needs, we reach the state of being truly happy. When we access our inner resources, we are resilient, confident and guided in the best possible way.
When we find self-worth and self – love which are, interestingly, not based on “Self” and we close the loop, we are truly “home”. We all should be there; we all should be “home”.
These programmes are based on solid scientific knowledge of cognition, language, human needs. CBT – cognitive behaviour therapy is very effective, and it is very successful at dealing with people`s mental cognitive distortions but it doesn`t go deep and wide enough.
The array of tools and the range of issues covered in the programmes are more than likely to help you.
Many individuals benefited from the change of thinking based on their cognition.
People can change and not just a little, they change profoundly. They change their thinking and what follows is their energy. Once they feel the positive energy behind their thoughts, their body behaves differently, they make different choices and different decisions.
The key issue here is to identify the cause of the problem. When it is clear what is causing a problem, the next step is to give the individual strategies and tools to use to address the issue.
There are many ways and opportunities for remarkable changes and incredible transformations.
What needs to happen for you to achieve the greatest and the fastest results:
– you need to be willing to change enough
– you need to be really open and honest about what you are experiencing, detailed in what you want to change and choose the way to do it
– be determined to change
– do your best to apply the new ways of thinking, the new energy and new behaviours (they are completely in your control and they are your choices)
What if I don’t know how to do it as I don’t know much about the inner sphere, my energy?
I think one of the concerns you may have is your own capability, your own capacity in terms of time and commitment to the programme.
The whole programme can be compared to a series of discoveries about your inner energy, about your cognition and language and your needs, some of which you didn’t know you had.
It is also an enjoyable experience as it allows you to get control over your thoughts and encourages you to use your imagination as well as teaches you to use limitless resources from your inner energy.
It is also a very empowering experience as it gives you back control over your inner sphere, your feelings and emotions, your language and cognition and your inner resources. It also makes you aware of your inner spiritual, mental and emotional needs and when you meet them, you feel satisfied, grounded and joyful.
If you can answer questions about how you feel, about your actions and your thoughts, you can definitely do it. The implementation part is, as you can imagine, much harder to do but there are ways to inspire your actions, should the need arise.
There are many ways to tackle any issue related to inner – energy. The solution can be found much easier and faster when you have detailed knowledge of the very foundations of your inner sphere.
The time is your focus, your focus is your mind, your thinking and your cognition. If you control your focus, you manage your time.
Everyone has the same amount of time, it seems… but we focus on different things and we end up with different results.
The biggest illusion, a cognitive distortion or a limiting belief people have is that we don`t have time. The truth is we do. If you think you don`t have time for something – ask yourself these questions:
– how important is it to me to become a better leader?
– what if I neglect it and don`t spend any time on it, enough time on it?
– what are the consequences of not growing and improving my mindset? – what if I stay the same?
– what are the consequences of you not having the time for it? – how will you progress?
Is your mindset important to you? Is your cognition working for you right now so you can skip working on it? Can you afford to neglect your most important tool – your mindset?
The quality of your life depends on the thoughts you have. The thoughts you have and the messages behind them, make your energy manifest.
What if you could manage your cognition, your meta programmes and improve your language? Would you agree that it would:
– influence how you feel on a daily basis
– impact your choices
– determine your decisions…?
Would it change your life? Would it change your leadership? How would you feel about it?
The questions now remain:
– do you have time to change all of that for the better?
– how important is it for you to change your thinking and as a result – your reality?
Well… I don`t have the money! – you may say.
If you are planning to be a leader or if you are a leader with a limited budget – the best thing you could possibly do is to invest in your mindset. An improved mindset will provide creative ways to increase your income, will give you ideas for additional revenue.
Your improved mindset will increase the productivity of your people and the profit they generate.
It will increase your own effectiveness and magnify the impact you are having and that will inevitably translate into more revenue.
If you really want it, you`ll find a way to get the finances. Ask the right questions, think about it intensely enough and it will manifest.
Ask yourself a question: what was that you bought lately that was important, significant to you? How did you manage to buy it?
Most people don`t pay for things that are not exactly tangible.
How do you value your mental, emotional and spiritual wellbeing? Are you happy inside? How much does it mean to you?
Your hidden value system manifests in your reality without you even realising, noticing it… When you look at where you invest your time – your focus and your money, it becomes clear.
If you really struggle financially, the most likely reason behind it: your mindset. I speak from my own experience.
Improved mindset finds solutions, improved mindset is resourceful and generates the right questions, and improved mindset improves decision and choices – all of which is not money, but the shortest, the fastest way to it.
Your mindset around money will manifest in your bank account balance. Oh, yes… it did in mine…
You have as much money as you think you deserve – notice: think. Yes.. money is truly a mind thing.
In order to have more money, you need a much better mindset. Full stop.
You cannot go further than your mindset allows you. Even if you do, you won`t be able to handle the progress.
One of the most common cognitive distortions (unfavourable conceptualisation) is that if you need support, if you ask for help, it means there is something wrong with you, that you incapable of doing something and you are simply weak. You end up unsupported, alone and unsure about what it is exactly that you should be doing… oh, yes.. that personal experience.. again..
You are not alone in this world. Never was and never will be. If you feel alone, you are most likely surrounded by the wrong people. You are probably still in your safety zone sitting there scared to ask for help as you might be rejected…
A much better way of thinking of getting support and help is to focus on improvement, growth and progress.
The question here is not what people might think but
do I want to get better
do I want to grow or do I in the same place and face a different future with the same old me…?
Do you care about being a better leader or do you care what other people think? I am afraid you will have to choose… No choice, as always, is a choice – in a form of consequences of not deciding, not taking action.
No decision is a decision. No action has consequences – just like action – but when you take action.. you have control over the outcomes..
Most people are afraid to even think of their mind…, most are afraid of any change, they fear the unknown… Yes, they forget that they LIVE the unknown… so taking responsibility and make it known – at least to a large degree is not an option.. is it?
People are afraid that if they question their mind, if they contradict it, they will prove that they are wrong, that there is something wrong with them. That is exactly the last thing that their mind wants and that is the very thing that keeps people trapped.
True leaders know that they have to be brave, they are not afraid of growth, improvement or developing their new skills.
The question here is …
Are you afraid of the unknown more than you are afraid of not changing at all? Do you not afraid of your own feelings in a few years – guilt, regret and disappointment… that you did not do more, achieve more, that you were not brave enough… once you gain perspective… it is devastating for many people.
You can easily avoid those feelings. You have a chance to change.
Are you afraid to see who you can become?
Are you afraid to see what you can do, what you were meant to do, what you were destined to achieve?
Are you afraid to see what you could have?
Most people are not scared of their current reality so much, their past so much that they project it onto their future and stay the same, just in case the past nightmare will repeat itself…
Guess what…
bad news. I am afraid… it will…
Your situation will continue, your past will repeat itself… highly, highly likely .. because.. you will be the same…. you will think the same, you will do the same things… you will feel the same… in the world that changes so fast…
Unless…
You decide. You decide to change your actions, change your thinking, change how you feel…
The only way to changing your situation, improving it is… CHANGE. Oh – it is easier – you just surrender to the change… and adapt. Simple!
If you are afraid of change, you scare your opportunities away, you scare your future Self away…
Ask yourself: do I want to meet me future Self – just like me, today or the future Self that is brave, better, stronger..?
People who don`t know how to create their future are terrified of it the most… oh, the irony..
People who don`t believe they have the power to create their future are scared of that power the most…
People who don`t believe that they can change, are scared of that very possibility the most…
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